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ROME, Feb. 16 (Xinhua) -- Juventus, Roma and Napoli all won in a convincing way in Serie A action on Sunday, while Alberto Gilardino scored twice in the last 25 minutes to earn Genoa a 3-3 draw with Udinese.


The league leaders Juventus celebrated their head coach Antonio Conte's 100th Serie A match with a 3-1 home win over Chievo.


Kwadwo Asamoah put the hosts ahead in the 17th minute Royce Freeman Youth Jersey , followed by Claudio Marchisio's goal in the 29th minute.


Chievo pulled one back thanks to Martin Caceres' own goal, but Fernando Llorente's 57th-minute header calmed nerves and sealed the result for the hosts.


Roma remain nine points adrift of Juve in second after they beat 10-man Sampdoria 3-0 at Stadio Olimpico.


Mattia Destro made the most of a rare start to score a double for the capital club, who bounced back from Wednesday's Coppa Italia exit at Napoli in perfect fashion.


Roma head coach Rudi Garcia said his side replied to "a lack of respect" from critics with the win.


"I think that after the Coppa Italia there was a lack of respect for my team," he said


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"Tonight we proved that we are strong. You all know there was a lack of respect. People need to acknowledge what this team can do and say the truth. I have total faith in this team and I think I am right to do so," he added.


Napoli met little resistance at Sassuolo Von Miller Youth Jersey , as goals from Blerim Dzemaili and Lorenzo Insigne helped them to a routine 2-0 triumph.


Genoa, twice two goals behind, staged a spectacular comeback to salvage a draw against Udinese at home.


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